Navigating Cold and Flu Season: A Working Parent’s Survival Guide

Navigating Cold and Flu Season: A Working Parent’s Survival Guide

Cold and flu season isn’t something any person looks forward to. For single people, families with or without children, stay at home parents and working parents it is a dreaded part transitioning out of summertime. While it’s challenging for everyone, for working parents, it often feels like a double whammy. Balancing job responsibilities, family, and taking care of sick kids can be overwhelming. Also, you often get sick yourself!

However, with the right strategies and a bit of preparation, it is possible to cope effectively and move through this season with a sense of calm. In this blog, we’ll explore some practical tips and tricks to help working parents navigate cold and flu season so that you can feel resilient and present throughout even the worst moments.

1. Prioritize Self-Care

As a parent, your natural inclination is to put your children’s needs first. However, you can’t effectively care for your family if you neglect your own well-being. While it can feel impossible to meet your own needs sometimes, it is definitely necessary to consider how you can meet, at least, your basic needs during this time of year. Here are some self-care strategies to keep in mind:

  • Prioritize rest and adequate sleep: Ensure you’re getting adequate sleep to boost your immune system and stay energized. Most people function best with 7-8 hours of sleep per night, but if that’s not possible try incorporating more calming and restful moments into your day (i.e. mindful stretching, sitting on the couch or a chair more often when you can, taking a nap if that’s necessary or feels possible)
  • Nourish your body: Nourish your body with a variety of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains to support your immune system. It is also important to make sure you are fueling your body with what sounds satisfying and feels satiating.
  • Try to get some movement in: Regular exercise can help reduce stress and strengthen your body’s defenses against illness. Exercise can be exchanged with the word movement. Simply stretching for 5 minutes or doing a short yoga video or walk with the dog can be enough. If you prefer more rigorous exercise, that’s an option too and be sure to balance that when you notice you are feeling more run down than usual.
  • Stress-Reduction: Incorporate stress-reduction techniques into your daily routine, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises. Some parents like to do this with their kids with things like tiger breathing (check out Big Little Feelings for more coping tools to teach kids) or big belly breathes. If incorporating a formal breathwork practice feels too difficult, try adding a “pause” into different moments during the day. As you brush your teeth, take an intentional deep breath as you add toothpaste to your toothbrush. Before you turn the faucet on to wash the dishes take a deep breath, in and out, and then start the process etc.

2. Stock Up on Supplies

Being prepared is crucial when you have a family. Stock up on essential supplies so that you’re ready to face cold and flu season head-on and don’t have to scramble while you and the family are not well. There are also other services like shipt, store pickups or Instacart for the moments you just need that extra support to get what you need.

Here are some ideas of what to have in stock (just to reduce your mental load of figuring it out–we did some legwork for you):

  • Tissues: Have plenty of tissues on hand for sneezes and runny noses. Boogie wipes are also a wonderful option to help with little one’s runny noses
  • Neti pot or saline rinse as well as suction tools for kids
  • Humidifier, and if you want to invest in a face steamer those are always nice for an at home spa night as well. They also help with congestion
  • Hand Sanitizer: Keep hand sanitizer with at least 60% alcohol available for times when soap and water are not accessible– be mindful if you struggle with obsessive compulsive disorder or health anxiety as there are alternatives that may not be as triggering to have in the house when you are unwell.
  • Fever Reducers and Pain Relievers: Make sure you have appropriate medications for reducing fever and alleviating discomfort.
  • Thermometer: A reliable thermometer is essential for monitoring your child’s temperature and your own. It will also give you the information needed for most caregivers (who usually want your child to be fever free for at least 24 hours before returning).
  • Canned soup, chicken or vegetable broth, bland crackers such as saltines and popsicles

3. Communicate with Your Employer

Open communication with your employer is crucial when you’re a working parent during cold and flu season. Here’s how to approach this. It is also intimidating and can feel really difficult for some people to approach. However, a lot of anxiety work is about approaching our fears and building tolerance for discomfort and this is a great way to set yourself up for success when you know you will need to ask for time off and assistance more regularly. Check out Boundary Boss, Set Boundaries Find Peace and How to Be yourself for reading materials that go more in depth about boundary setting and social anxiety help.

  • Flexible Work Arrangements: Discuss the possibility of flexible work arrangements, such as remote work or adjusted hours, to accommodate your family’s needs.
  • Backup Plans: Have a backup plan in place for childcare in case your child gets sick and needs to stay home from school or daycare.
  • Paid Sick Leave: Be aware of your company’s policies regarding paid sick leave and ensure you know how to access it when needed. If you work for yourself, assess your budget and what you can afford so that you can take time you need to rest and get better rather than pushing through any severity of sickness
  • Remind yourself that you are allowed to be human: everyone has emergencies come up and gets sick sometimes. No matter what that brings up for you, remind yourself to be compassionate and kind to yourself when you need extra support or time. This can be hard to do and if you struggle with self-compassion and/or high anxiety about these topics talk to your mental health provider for more tools to address that.

4. Plan for the Inevitable

No matter how diligent you are, there will be times when your child falls ill. Here’s how to prepare for those situations:

  • Emergency Contacts: Ensure you have a list of emergency contacts ready in case you need assistance with childcare during your work hours.
  • Sick Day Routine: Establish a routine for sick days that includes plenty of rest, hydration, and quiet activities to keep your child comfortable. Try to let go of what is considered “best” for activities that day. For example, you may need to be working on and off so letting your child watch more screens than usual is a perfectly normal choice a lot of parents may make that day. When guilt shows up, the key is to diffuse from it. Notice it, name it and then come back to the present and that all of this is temporary.
  • Clear Communication: Inform your employer as soon as possible if you need to take time off due to your child’s illness. Clear communication will help you manage expectations. Similarly, let the people in your support network know as soon as possible if you need a helping hand. Try to let go of “doing it all,” as much as you can.

5. Build a Support Network

You don’t have to navigate cold and flu season alone. Even if it is difficult and a bit awkward at times, it is helpful to build a support network of friends, family, and fellow parents who can offer assistance when needed:

  • Co-Parenting: If you have a co-parent, discuss how you can share responsibilities when your child is sick and how you can take turns each time it happens. For example, if one of you has a more flexible schedule but you have a lot of important meetings that day, as your co-parent or partner to take one for the team that day.
  • Neighborly Help: Connect with neighbors who might be willing to assist with childcare or errands during challenging times. Possibly come up with a system where you all know you can reach out to one another for emergency help when needed. That way if it arises you know you have already broached that conversation and that they will then be welcomed to ask you for support as well in the future.
  • Playdates: Making friends and connections is so tough as a working parent. However, establishing relationships with other parents from your child’s school or daycare, can be an invaluable support network for you during this time of year. Even if it turns out you all can’t help each other, you can have a friendly ear to vent to when things feel hard. 

6. Stay Informed

Stay informed about the latest developments in cold and flu season to make informed decisions for your family:

  • Vaccinations: Keep up with recommended vaccinations for your children and yourself to reduce the risk of contracting and spreading illnesses if that is part of your health plan. Regardless, taking preventative measures like taking various supplements and maintaining a balanced lifestyle can all be helpful.
  • Local Outbreaks: Be aware of local outbreaks and follow public health guidelines to protect your family and community. This may help you decide when you plan to go to more public events or not and what precautions you may take when you are there.

7. Be Patient and Flexible

Above all, be patient and flexible with yourself. Parenting during cold and flu season can be tough, and there may be days when everything feels like it’s falling apart. Remember that it’s okay to ask for help and take breaks when needed. Your well-being and your child’s health are the top priorities. Radical acceptance is a skill that is really helpful here to help work through the frustration of going through this year after year.

In conclusion, as a working parent, navigating cold and flu season can be challenging, but with preparation, communication, and self-care, you can manage it effectively. Remember that you’re not alone, and there is support available from your employer, friends, and family. By prioritizing your family’s health and well-being, you can successfully weather the cold and flu season and emerge stronger on the other side.

8. Talk With a Mental Health Professional

If sickness and cold and flu season causes anxiety that you find to be disruptive and difficult to manage, you may benefit from talking with a licensed counselor about your worries. This will give you another person to have in your corner when things feel hard and isolating as well as provide you a space to learn helpful tools to manage your worries and moments of crisis.

Navigating the Transition to Summertime With Kids in The Chicagoland Area 

Navigating the Transition to Summertime With Kids in The Chicagoland Area 

Summertime Can be Fun, But Full of Challenges

It is no secret that we love summertime in this amazing city, and surrounding suburbs. Suddenly the possibilities of what to do with our families increase tenfold. It’s also just generally pleasant to be able to run out the door without putting a million layers on! However, the structure of the school year for many parents is a tough thing to let go of. Without the daily rhythms that school and after-school activities provide, it’s essential to establish a summer routine that gives you a sense of balance. Ideally, balancing relaxation, routine, and fun activities.

The Benefits of Creating a Summer Routine

As a therapist in the Chicago area that works with moms, I have seen these challenges firsthand. In this blog, I am going to list a few benefits of creating a summer routine and provide practical tips to help you and your family make the most of your summer break. Then Ill give a few suggestions of activities to add to your calendar in Chicago.

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Consider your Priorities and Set Goals:

Think about what you want to prioritize this summer and then set goals according to those larger ideas. I encourage parents to think about priorities for the family and kids as well as personal priorities. For example, if you want to prioritize quality time with the kids it is also important to consider what YOU need and want during family time as well. Prioritize these goals and break them down into manageable tasks. This will provide a sense of direction and purpose to your summer routine.

Set a Schedule (Keep it flexible though):

Setting a schedule is regulating for a lot of people, especially children. When our kids feel a sense of what to expect in a day, they tend to feel less tension and uncertainty about what lies ahead each morning. It’s still important, for your sanity, to keep things flexible. So, start by designating specific blocks of time for activities such as quiet time, reading, outdoor play, creative projects, and camp/ planned activities. However, remember to keep the schedule flexible to allow for spontaneous adventures and relaxation (see ideas for what to do in the area after this list).

Incorporate Learning and Enrichment:

Summer break doesn’t have to mean learning stops. Most children are naturally curious and love to explore. That’s why I recommend encouraging your children to engage in educational activities that align with their interests. Visit the local library to stock up on books, join summer reading programs, or explore online educational platforms. Consider planning visits to museums, science centers, or historical sites to make learning fun and interactive. Sometimes, it’s as easy as walking around the backyard or a local forest preserve and looking up the trees, plants, insects, and animals you find. 

Encourage Physical Activity:

After being stuck indoors all winter, summer is the perfect time to enjoy outdoor activities and keep the whole family active. This is also helpful for passing time as a parent and getting some extra Vitamin D while watching your kids play. I recommend planning regular outings to parks, going for family hikes, organizing backyard games, or setting up a water table in the backyard or sprinkler/splash pad on warmer days. If it’s feasible, summer sports camps or swimming lessons also promote physical fitness and provide kids with new experiences. This will also give you a little downtime to tackle your personal goals over the summer months or just to rest for a minute! 

Embrace Mindfulness and Relaxation as Much as Possible:

This is where balance comes in. Amidst the excitement and busyness of summer, it’s essential to find moments to unwind and rest or relax. I generally recommend incorporating mindfulness activities into your routine, such as yoga or meditation, or using a mindfulness app for daily practice. Create a cozy reading corner where you and your children can unwind with their favorite books and have that quiet time structured into their day. Encourage downtime for everyone to recharge and reflect.

Encourage Creative Play and Projects:

Summer break is an excellent opportunity for your children to explore their creativity and pursue artistic endeavors. Set up an art station with various art supplies, encourage imaginative play, or enroll them in art classes or workshops (again only if that is feasible). Allow time for unstructured play and let their creativity flourish. There is a lot of benefit to allowing kids to get messy with paints, play-doh or even just get a big piece of paper out and mess-free markers! They will love the independence and it may keep them occupied for a while. 

Maintain Consistency and Flexibility:

While routine provides structure, remember that summer break is also a time for spontaneity and flexibility. Be open to adjusting your schedule as needed to accommodate family outings, vacations, or special events. Strike a balance between consistency and work toward embracing the unexpected.

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What Can I Do With My Kids in the Western Suburbs of Chicago

Discover Nature at Morton Arboretum:

Located in Lisle, the Morton Arboretum is a haven of natural beauty and outdoor exploration. Take your kids on a scenic hike through the lush forest trails, participate in hands-on activities at the Children’s Garden, or embark on a nature-themed scavenger hunt. It’s an awesome place to go on a solo hike or family outing.

Enjoy Water Fun at Centennial Beach or a Park District Pool Nearby:

Beat the summer heat by taking a trip to Centennial Beach in Naperville. This historic outdoor swimming facility features a beautiful sandy beach, designated swimming areas, water slides, and a children’s large splash, shallow end area. Also, don’t forget to check out your local park district for their pool pass options. Some even offer reciprocal residency so you can get a better rate for another community pool! 

Visit Cosley Zoo:

Nestled in Wheaton, Cosley Zoo provides a fantastic opportunity for your children to get up close and personal with a variety of animals. Explore the exhibits showcasing native Illinois wildlife, including red foxes, white-tailed deer, and adorable farm animals. The zoo also offers educational programs, animal encounters, and nature-themed events throughout the summer.

Explore Cantigny Park:

Cantigny Park, located in Wheaton, offers a perfect blend of natural beauty, history, and family-friendly activities. Stroll through the stunning gardens, explore the historic mansion, and let your children release their energy at the playgrounds. The park also features picnic areas, hiking trails, and an outdoor tank park that military history enthusiasts will love.

Splash into Fun at Raging Waves Waterpark:

For an exhilarating water adventure, head to Raging Waves Waterpark in Yorkville. This expansive waterpark features thrilling water slides, lazy rivers, wave pools, and interactive water play areas. Spend a day zooming down water slides with your kids or relaxing in the sun while they explore the kid-friendly areas.

Visit Brookfield Zoo:

While technically located just outside the western suburbs, Brookfield Zoo is definitely worth the short trip. This renowned zoo offers a diverse collection of animals from around the world. Explore the exhibits, attend educational animal encounters, and enjoy special events throughout the summer. Don’t forget to check out the Dolphin Show and the Tropic World Rainforest exhibit. There’s so much for littles and bigger kiddos as well.

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City of Chicago Outings:

Explore Chicago’s Parks:

Chicago boasts an array of beautiful parks that provide the perfect backdrop for family outings. Millennium Park, with its iconic Cloud Gate sculpture (also known as “The Bean”), is a must-visit spot for capturing unique family photos. Grant Park offers stunning lakefront views and hosts various events, including concerts and festivals. Lincoln Park, with its zoo and nature trails, is a fantastic destination for a day of outdoor exploration. 

Visit Kid-Friendly Museums:

Chicago is renowned for its world-class museums, many of which offer engaging exhibits for children. The Museum of Science and Industry, with its interactive displays and hands-on experiments, will undoubtedly spark your child’s curiosity. The Shedd Aquarium is another fantastic choice, where kids can marvel at marine life and even witness live dolphin and penguin shows. The Peggy Notebaert Nature Museum is a hidden gem that provides educational experiences focused on local wildlife and natural habitats.

Splash in Water Parks:

Beat the summer heat by visiting one of Chicago’s fantastic water parks. The Maggie Daley Park Play Garden features an innovative water feature, perfect for children of all ages. The Crown Fountain at Millennium Park offers an opportunity for your little ones to splash around in shallow water while enjoying the mesmerizing digital art display. For a more extensive water park experience, venture out to Six Flags Hurricane Harbor in nearby Gurnee for thrilling slides, wave pools, and lazy rivers.

Enjoy Lakefront Activities:

Chicago’s stunning Lake Michigan shoreline offers endless opportunities for family fun. Spend a day at one of the many public beaches, such as North Avenue Beach or Montrose Beach, where your children can build sandcastles, play beach volleyball, or take a refreshing swim. Consider renting bicycles or rollerblades and cruising along the Lakefront Trail, taking in the picturesque views of the city skyline.

Discover Nature in Botanic Gardens:

Escape the bustling city and immerse yourself in the tranquility of the Chicago Botanic Garden. Located in Glencoe, just north of the city, this expansive garden offers a variety of themed gardens, walking trails, and beautiful landscapes. Engage your children with the hands-on activities in the Children’s Garden, or participate in one of the many educational programs designed for families.

Online Therapy for Moms in Chicago IL and Wisconsin!

We are currently taking clients and encourage you to reach out for your free 15-minute phone consultation to see if this could be a beneficial resource for you. This is another way to feel like you are not alone and to experience a validating and productive conversation surrounding your role as a mother and human being!  

  1. Read more about us to discover if we are the best fit for you.
  2. Schedule an appointment.
  3. Start living your best life!

Other Services:


Limitless Counseling Center has a variety of specialty services catered to your needs. In addition to our online OCD therapy in Chicago, IL, we also provide online therapy for panic disordergeneralized anxietysocial anxiety or phobias as well as perinatal and postpartum OCD and anxiety

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Feeling Overwhelmed as a Mother: Tips to Overcome the Overwhelm from a Chicago, IL Therapist

Feeling Overwhelmed as a Mother: Tips to Overcome the Overwhelm from a Chicago, IL Therapist

Motherhood is a Full-Time Job

Motherhood is a full-time job, and it comes with endless responsibilities that can be overwhelming at times. While being a mother is an incredibly rewarding experience, it is not uncommon to feel overwhelmed and stressed out from time to time…or seemingly all the time! Let’s take some time to explore the experience of overwhelm as a mother, and we will also provide some tips for managing these feelings including Therapy for Moms at Limitless Counseling.

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Feeling Overwhelmed is Completely Normal

First and foremost, it’s important to understand that feeling overwhelmed as a mother is completely normal! Start with Validation because you are certainly not alone in feeling this way. Being responsible for the well-being of another human being (or more than one human being) is a huge responsibility, and it’s natural to feel a little out of your depth at times. However, if these feelings persist and begin to impact your day-to-day life, it may be a sign that you need to take action and learn additional coping skills to feel less impacted.

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Mother’s Can Face an Overwhelming Number of Tasks to Accomplish Every Day

One of the most common causes of overwhelm for mothers is the sheer volume of tasks that need to be accomplished on a daily basis. The hardest thing about this list of tasks, is a lot of it goes unseen and is simply a mental load carried all by herself. From feeding and changing diapers to juggling work and household chores, it can feel like there are simply not enough hours in the day to get everything done. This is especially true for new mothers who are still adjusting to the demands of caring for a newborn.

Understanding How to Prioritize is Key

When this feeling comes up, it’s important to prioritize your tasks and focus on what’s most important. Make a list of the things that need to be done each day, and prioritize them based on their level of urgency. Trust that your list will be there for you later, tomorrow or someone else can check a box for you! If you’re struggling to keep up with everything, consider enlisting the support of someone in your support network. There is also the option to hire additional support if that resource is available to you.

Societal Pressures to be the Perfect Parent

Another common cause of overwhelm for mothers is the pressure to be a “perfect” parent. This is something many parents struggle with, especially when they are bombarded with so many opinions and strategies through the accounts they follow. Social media and parenting blogs can make it seem like everyone else has it all figured out, leaving you feeling like you’re falling short. However, it’s important to remember that no one is perfect and that every parent makes mistakes. Social media posts, and even stories people share with us in person or over text, are filtered and often a highlight reel of that person’s experience.

Focus on Doing the Best YOU Can in Your Situation

Instead of striving for perfection, focus on doing the best you can with the resources and support available to you. A helpful reframe to practice is “I am good enough” or “Im doing the best I can with the resources I have.” Practicing affirmations like this can help rewire automatic thinking patterns that have become unhelpful and self-destructive. 

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Practice Self-Care

Practicing self-care is another helpful strategy, and frankly, a good life skill to develop. Taking time for yourself can be challenging as a mother, but it’s essential for your well-being. Whether it’s going for a walk, taking a bath, or reading a book, find ways to prioritize your own needs and take care of yourself. The topic of self-care is something we could write a whole other post about (stay tuned for that). It starts with really thinking about yourself as a priority.

You Cannot Take Care of Others if You Don’t Care for Yourself First

We cannot care for others until we take care of ourselves and we will not feel better about ourselves if we run ourselves into the ground. A great book that explores this further is Real Self Care by Pooja Lakshmin, MD if you want to another resource.

Connect With Other Moms

Last, but not least, connect as much as you can with other mothers! Joining a parenting group or attending a playdate can help you feel less alone and provide you with a supportive network of other mothers who are going through similar experiences. It also is a helpful strategy to get out of the house! If these feelings f overwhelm do not subside, reach out for help with an experienced Therapist who works with moms.

Online Therapy for Moms in Chicago IL and Wisconsin!

We are currently taking clients and encourage you to reach out for your free 15-minute phone consultation to see if this could be a beneficial resource for you. This is another way to feel like you are not alone and to experience a validating and productive conversation surrounding your role as a mother and human being!  

  1. Read more about us to discover if we are the best fit for you.
  2. Schedule an appointment.
  3. Start living your best life!

Other Services:


Limitless Counseling Center has a variety of specialty services catered to your needs. In addition to our online OCD therapy in Chicago, IL, we also provide online therapy for panic disordergeneralized anxietysocial anxiety or phobias as well as perinatal and postpartum OCD and anxiety

What are Phobias and How To Treat Them: Advice from a Phobia Counselor in Chicago

What are Phobias and How To Treat Them: Advice from a Phobia Counselor in Chicago

Phobias are intense, irrational fears of specific objects or situations that can significantly impact an individual’s quality of life. Not all phobias lead to severe disruption in your daily life, but in some cases, phobias can really limit you and hinder your ability to function.

There are Many Different Categories of Phobias

There are many phobias, but it is generally helpful to categorize them into the most common categories. Please keep in mind this is just a list of how to think about phobias broadly and not an exhaustive list of every phobia that exists. That said, phobias can be divided into three broad categories: specific phobias, social phobias, and agoraphobia.

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Issues that Phobia Counseling in Chicago, IL Can Address

 

Specific Phobias

Specific phobias are the most common type of phobia, affecting around 19 million adults in the United States alone. As the name suggests, specific phobias are fears of specific objects or situations.

Some common specific phobias include:

    • Fear of animals such as spiders, snakes, or dogs.
    • Natural environment phobias: Fear of natural phenomena such as heights, thunderstorms, or water.
    • Situational phobias: Fear of specific situations such as flying, enclosed spaces, or driving.
    • Miscellaneous phobias: Fear of needles, Fear of vomiting, etc.

Social Phobias:

Social phobias, also known as social anxiety disorder, involve an intense fear of social situations or performance situations. People with social phobias may worry excessively about being judged or evaluated negatively by others, leading to feelings of embarrassment or shame.

Common social phobias include:

    • Public speaking phobia: Fear of speaking in public or performing in front of others.
    • Performance anxiety: Fear of performing in front of others, such as musicians or actors.
    • Social interaction phobia: Fear of social situations, such as parties or meetings, where individuals may feel
    • judged or evaluated.

Agoraphobia:

Agoraphobia is a type of phobia that involves an intense fear of being in situations where escape may be difficult or impossible. This fear can lead to individuals avoiding certain situations, such as crowded places or public transportation.

Common agoraphobia situations include:

    • Fear of leaving home: Fear of leaving one’s home or safe place.
    • Fear of enclosed spaces: Fear of being in enclosed spaces such as elevators or tunnels.
    • Fear of open spaces: Fear of being in open spaces such as parks or bridges.
    • Fear of leaving home: Fear of leaving one’s home or safe place.
    • Fear of enclosed spaces: Fear of being in enclosed spaces such as elevators or tunnels.
    • Fear of open spaces: Fear of being in open spaces such as parks or bridges.
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What Does Treatment Look Like During Counseling for Phobias in Chicago, IL?

At Limitless Counseling Center we utilize exposure therapy to treat phobias. Exposure therapy aims to desensitize individuals to their phobia by gradually exposing them to the feared object or situation in a safe and controlled environment. During exposure therapy, individuals work with a trained therapist to develop a hierarchy of feared situations or objects. The hierarchy is typically organized from least to most anxiety-provoking. The therapist then guides the individual through exposure to each level of the hierarchy, allowing them to confront their fears in a safe and controlled setting. For example, an individual with a fear of heights may start with exposure to a low-level situation, such as looking at pictures of high places, before gradually progressing to more challenging situations, such as standing on a balcony or riding in an elevator to a high floor. With each exposure, the individual learns to tolerate and manage their anxiety, eventually becoming more tolerant of their phobia.

Exposure Therapy Can be Conducted in Different Ways

Exposure therapy can be conducted in a variety of ways, including imaginal exposure (imagining feared situations), in vivo exposure (exposure to real-life situations), or virtual reality exposure (using technology to simulate feared situations). The type of exposure used will depend on the specific phobia and the individual’s comfort level.
One of the advantages of exposure therapy is that it is a relatively short-term treatment, typically lasting only a few weeks or months. Additionally, it has been shown to have long-lasting effects, with many individuals experiencing a significant reduction in phobia-related symptoms even years after treatment.

The Challenges of Exposure Therapy

While exposure therapy can be an effective treatment for phobias, it is not without potential risks. Exposure therapy can be challenging and anxiety-provoking, and some individuals may experience temporary increases in anxiety or panic during the exposure process. However, these side effects are typically manageable with the support of a trained therapist. In conclusion, exposure therapy is a highly effective treatment for phobias that can help individuals overcome their fears and improve their quality of life. By gradually exposing individuals to their phobia in a safe and controlled setting, exposure therapy can help them learn to tolerate and manage their anxiety, eventually becoming much more tolerant.

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Start Phobia Counseling in Chicago, IL

As a bonus tip, it’s important to stay positive and not lose hope during your treatment in Chicago, Illinois. Although it can be intense and challenging at times, it’s all part of the process of getting better. By recognizing the difficulties you’re facing, seeking support from a trained professional, and working collaboratively with them in your daily life, you can learn to better manage triggering moments and work through them. Remember, taking the first step can be difficult, but it’s worth it.

Our clinic is currently accepting clients who are 18 years old or older and experiencing extreme difficulty managing their anxiety. This may include general dysfunction due to compulsive reactions to worry, or worries that persist for hours or even the entire day despite attempts to reduce discomfort.

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Other Mental Health Services Offered at Limitless Counseling Center:

Limitless Counseling Center has a variety of specialty services catered to your needs. In addition to our online OCD therapy in Chicago, IL, we also provide online therapy for panic disorder, generalized anxiety, social anxiety, or phobias, as well as perinatal and postpartum OCD and anxiety.

What Causes Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders and What Does Treatment Look Like? Thoughts from a Chicago, IL Therapist.

What Causes Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders and What Does Treatment Look Like? Thoughts from a Chicago, IL Therapist.

If you are pregnant and wondering what to look out for when it comes to your mental health, you are not alone; that’s why Perinatal and Postpartum Mental Health therapists exist! Even leading up to pregnancy, there are so many emotions and experience people have. So, it would make sense that it’s possible, and not so uncommon, to go through various ups and down, so to speak, during and after pregnancy.

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What are Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders?

That’s a good question, especially because most people refer to mood concerns as postpartum depression. However, people can be diagnosed with several different mood disorders within the perinatal (during pregnancy) and postpartum (the first 12 months after birth).

These Disorders are Relatively Common

While expecting a child can be exciting, various perinatal mood and anxiety disorders are fairly common during pregnancy and the postpartum period. The estimate, according to Postpartum Support International, is that 15-20 % of women experience symptoms that meet the criteria for a clinical diagnosis beyond the typical “baby blues.” 

 The Baby Blues

The “baby blues” is a period of normal postpartum adjustment that is inherently stressful. The difficulty of becoming a new parent is widely considered normal for this reason. 60-80% of women report feeling exhausted, sad, irritable, and generally anxious after the birth of their child. These symptoms begin one to three days postpartum and can last up to fourteen days. It is recommended to seek out further assessment and support if those feelings don’t start to feel more manageable after that time period. That may look like these various feelings and thoughts start to interfere with daily living and typical coping strategies as the birthing person.

What Are The Different Diagnoses? 

Postpartum depression

This is characterized by sadness and hopelessness during pregnancy or after the birth of one’s child. The birthing person may notice that this leads to a significant decrease or increase in irritability, sleeping, eating, engaging with friends and family, and possibly disinterest in spending time with their child.

Postpartum Anxiety

Excessive worry and fear about the health, safety, and well-being of the baby and oneself during pregnancy or postpartum. This often leads to decreased functioning for the parent and difficulty staying present without considering worst-case scenarios and how to prevent those.

Postpartum OCD

Excessive worry and fear during pregnancy and/or postpartum involve intrusive and distressing thoughts, images, or urges (obsessions) that result in repetitive behaviors or mental acts (compulsions). There are many themes of obsessions and many ways compulsions manifest for individuals. Generally, obsessions revolve around fears of harming the baby in some way (i.e., dropping the baby, suffocating the baby, or fearing contamination). Compulsions may involve excessive checking, cleaning, or other behaviors to reduce anxiety.

Postpartum Psychosis

This is rare but often occurs enough to know the signs and symptoms for the birthing parent and baby’s wellbeing. Symptoms include Delusions (odd beliefs that feel true), Hallucinations (seeing or hearing things that aren’t there), general confusion, decreased need for sleep, difficulty differentiating between reality and thoughts, and changes in speech patterns.

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Does a Perinatal Mental Health Therapist in Illinois know what Causes Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders?

The short answer is we don’t know for sure. There are some risk factors to acknowledge and consider when wondering whether to seek certain supports during pregnancy. Here is a list of a few things that can contribute to the development of a diagnosis during this time:

 

Hormonal changes:

The rapid changes in hormones during pregnancy and after birth can impact mood and contribute to depression and anxiety.

General Life stress:

Pregnancy and the postpartum period tend to bring up additional stress and responsibilities. These include financial worries, relationship challenges, sleep deprivation, rapid body changes, and family role shifts.

Personal or family history of mental health issues.

Women with a history of depression, anxiety, or other mental health issues are at a higher risk of developing perinatal mood disorders. Considering the history of the birthing person’s mother in case they experience significant symptoms during pregnancy or postpartum.

Medical complications.

Pregnancy and birth complications, such as pre-eclampsia, gestational diabetes, and premature birth, can increase the risk of perinatal mood disorders.

The conception journey.

The possible complications that occur when trying to conceive or if the pregnancy is unexpected can lead to feelings of stress, grief/loss, feelings of loneliness and isolation, and general sadness.

Support system.

Having a support system and community to lean on during this vulnerable time helps maintain mental wellness. When support changes or is not present, that can cause changes in the birthing person’s sense of safety and confidence.

Treatment Prescribed by Perinatal Mental Health Therapists in Chicago

There is hope, there is the treatment for Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders. It’s important to seek help from a mental health professional if you are experiencing the symptoms listed above. If you are experiencing or a loved one is experiencing symptoms of psychosis, reach out to your doctor right away.

There is no shame in experiencing the thoughts and feelings that SO many parents feel when they try to conceive, become pregnant, go through pregnancy, and then go through postpartum. The diagnoses listed in this post are all very treatable!

Treatment options may include:

Therapy:

All therapists rely on their own theoretical orientation to inform how they do the treatment. It’s proven that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) are therapies that can effectively treat perinatal mood disorders. If trauma symptoms present, it’s also helpful to consider exposure therapy or other modalities to work through that.

Medication:

Antidepressants and other medications can effectively treat depression and anxiety. Many psychiatrists and doctors understand and can support medication use during and after pregnancy. The key is to find referrals for experts in that area. If you’re uncomfortable with this option, there are also alternatives to explore with an Eastern medicine or functional medicine lens.

Self-care:

Practicing self-care, such as intuitive movement, mindfulness, allowing time for adequate sleep when possible, time alone, time with friends, and whatever fills your cup, is so important to feel settled and consistent. This is especially true during the perinatal and postpartum time periods. The main takeaway is that perinatal mood and anxiety disorders are common. They can impact a woman’s mental health during pregnancy and after giving birth. However, they are also very treatable and there are resources for those going through it!

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Get Perinatal and Postpartum Support in Therapy for Women in Chicago, IL Today!

Seeking treatment is difficult but highly recommended. If you are experiencing anything listed above and/or just want a space to go to. Remember, you are not alone. Taking care of your mental health is just as important as taking care of your physical health during this time.

Other Services:

Limitless Counseling Center has a variety of specialty services catered to your needs. In addition to Clinical Consultation and Supervision,  we offer online Perinatal & Postpartum therapy in Chicago, IL. We also provide online therapy for panic disorder, generalized anxietysocial anxiety, or phobias, as well as OCD.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5 Ways To Maximize Your OCD Treatment in Chicago, IL

5 Ways To Maximize Your OCD Treatment in Chicago, IL

Maximizing Your OCD Treatment in Chicago, Illinois

The good news is that you can develop habits outside of your therapy sessions to maximize the effectiveness of what you work on with your OCD specialist. Here, at Limitless Counseling Center, we structure sessions so that you leave for the day with goals to work toward between sessions.

With a new year starting, it is important to acknowledge the fact that starting something is the hardest part. If you have started treatment for your obsessive-compulsive disorder, you have already achieved so much. That is truly something to be very proud of despite the typical level of discomfort it takes to get there.
With most outpatient treatment, sessions only take up 50-55 minutes of your entire week. That can feel difficult when you really want to see a shift in your symptoms fast!

What Goals look like in OCD Treatment in Chicago, IL

1. Track anxiety triggers and rate the intensity of that anxiety on a scale of 0-10 and track the
resulting in compulsive urges and the intensity of those on a scale of 0-10

a. Will be discussed during the next session.

2. Exposure goal: touch the doorknob in a public restroom and resist washing hands for more than 20 seconds (limits: maximum two pumps of soap and semi-warm water)

3. Do one values-based activity each day for at least 10 minutes (i.e. mindfulness activity, yoga, walking with the dog, cooking dinner with your partner, calling a friend, getting a massage, etc.)

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Here are 5 things to maximize your OCD treatment in Chicago outside of sessions:

Use a catchphrase or mantra

This helps you remember to resist compulsions. The one I use most is:

“Discomfort does not Equal Danger” or “Can I Put Off Acting on this Urge a Little Longer?”

Keep your Catchphrase in Mind.

Use calendar reminders and notifications to keep your catchphrase top of mind. You can use reminders and notifications for all treatment goals, and we recommend that. This helps build momentum outside of sessions to mindfully acknowledge obsessions to decide how to combat compulsive urges best.

Tell yourself “Anything’s Possible” or “Maybe, Maybe not”.

This can be used in response to your worries. This is an exposure and response prevention. If you are in treatment for OCD, you are most likely resisting reassuring yourself and seeking reassurance from others. These statements are helpful to reach that goal.

Whenever possible, approach.

Move toward what triggers you and resist compulsions along the way. This is the name of the game with succeeding in and outside of sessions.

Let Your Values Motivate You.

When you run into roadblocks or unexpected intense triggering moments, remind yourself that you are doing this to live a life that is fulfilling and satisfying. The goal is to help yourself and not to help your OCD. So even when it feels like you want to give in to your urges, just this once, remind yourself that you are helping your OCD at that moment, and you would rather help yourself!

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It is important to note that each person will come to their OCD treatment with a different set of experiences. So, everyone has different goals from the outset of starting sessions.
You may notice that weekly goals are specific and relate to individuals but aren’t broadly applicable to every person with OCD. So, we decided it would be helpful to generate a list of ten things that can maximize your treatment outside of sessions regardless of what the main themes of your OCD are and regardless of where you are at in your treatment timeline.

We approach all individuals as, well, individuals! However, the above tips are generally helpful when considering increasing your chances of reaching your treatment goals in and out-of-session times each week. Other things can facilitate treatment gains that you can read more about in our blog and in within the resources we recommend on our resources page.

Start OCD Treatment in Chicago, IL

For a final bonus tip, don’t get discouraged. OCD Treatment in Chicago, Illinois, can feel intense and difficult at times, and it is all a part of the process of getting better. Acknowledging the struggles you are having, reaching out to a trained professional, and working together with that person, as well as in your day-to-day life, will help you understand how to better work through those triggering moments. Taking the first step is the hardest part.

We are currently taking clients that are 18 years old or older, have extreme difficulty managing their anxiety, have general dysfunction because of the compulsions in reaction to worry and/or have worries that often take up anywhere from 1 hour of their day to their entire day regardless of efforts to reduce their discomfort.  

1. Read more about us to discover if we are the best fit for you.
2. Schedule an appointment.
3. Start living your best life!

Other Services:

Limitless Counseling Center has a variety of specialty services catered to your needs. In addition to our online OCD therapy in Chicago, IL, we also provide online therapy for panic disorder, generalized anxiety, social anxiety, or phobias, as well as perinatal and postpartum OCD and anxiety.

Looking for Health Anxiety Help in Chicago, IL? A Therapist shares!

Looking for Health Anxiety Help in Chicago, IL? A Therapist shares!

Health anxiety is extensive worry or preoccupation with being or becoming ill.

Health anxiety is now known as somatic symptom disorder and illness anxiety disorder. Both are defined as excessive concern with potential illness. However, somatic symptom disorder is different in that there are physical symptoms present.

Individuals who struggle with either of these concerns may perseverate on any physical discomfort that arises. This could be something like a headache, stomach pain, dizziness, or general pain that feels “out of the blue” or “intense.” It isn’t uncommon for people to also get stuck on the idea that they can become ill with a terminal illness or an illness that will leave them in discomfort for the remainder of their lives. Each person is different, and therefore their health anxiety attaches to different concerns. However, those are common themes that come up.

Group of medical professionals staring down. This image represents the feeling that can occur with anxiety. Health Anxiety help in Chicago, IL could be the support you've been looking for.

Questions that Health Anxiety Help in Chicago, IL, can Address

It’s possible if you are struggling with health anxiety, you may be experiencing or have experienced the following distressing thoughts and questions:

  • My cousin went to the doctor for that, and it turns out they DID have __(feared illness) ____. So, it is more likely than people think.
  • I know multiple people who didn’t think anything was wrong, and then they suddenly died or something really serious was going on.
  • This feeling isn’t normal, is it? It feels really severe. What if I have __(i.e. tumor, cancer, etc)_____?
  • My doctors keep telling me to wait and see if things worsen, but what if it’s too late by then? Could they be missing something?
  • What if this is a true emergency?
  • How will I know the difference between anxiety and an actual problem?
  • I need to know right now if something is really wrong.
  • It could be something irreversible if I don’t get help for it now or soon. I could really regret not getting treatment or checkout out right away.

Why don’t consistent doctor visits address Health Anxiety Help in Chicago, IL? Isn’t it better to get checked out just in case something is wrong?

It is a temporary fix for any anxiety concern to get reassurance.

For example, if you are experiencing migraine headaches you may have seen a specialist for it or your primary care doctor. If their medical tests and/or images are inconclusive or show up completely normal, most likely, anxiety will come right back.

This is the vicious cycle that occurs when we message care providers or extensively research different symptoms. It leads to more and more possibilities and more and more uncertainty about what is going on. So, while it isn’t harmful to see your doctor or message them, it rarely feels satisfying for a long period of time before anxiety increases once again.

Health Anxiety Help in Chicago, IL: The Typical Anxiety Cycle

  1. Notice symptoms
  2. Anxiety and fear sets in
  3. Continue to feel hypervigilant about symptoms and check symptoms often
  4. Anxiety gets higher
  5. (seek reassurance in some way) Go to the doctor, message the doctor, or google symptoms
  6. Possible temporary relief
  7. Notice the symptoms or experience anxiety about contracting an illness again
  8. Cycle repeats

This isn’t to say that it is wrong to go see or message your doctor one time, but if they assess that nothing is urgent or an emergency the goal would be to trust their input. Googling and reaching out regularly to our providers tends to lead us down a worst-case scenario rabbit hole and then makes us feel more anxious as a result.

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So, what am I supposed to do? How do I get through the moments I am really anxious about?

In short, the goal is to practice resisting the urges you have to reach out to providers, check symptoms repeatedly, research your concerns online, and any other behaviors that tend to feel tempting in moments of anxiety. Sitting with uncertainty and building tolerance of it over time is the end goal.

While this is a difficult task, often people find it is already difficult to live the way they are living and that this treatment is at least more helpful than continuing on as they are.

Exposure therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy are helpful approaches to reducing anxiety, including health anxiety, over time. With these approaches, your provider would have you identify your triggers and common responses to your triggers, to begin with. From there, you would create an exposure hierarchy where you gradually approach your fears while resisting the unhelpful behaviors that keep your anxiety strong. For more information on ERP and CBT check out our service pages.

Over time, when clients practice resisting their urges to engage in health anxiety urges, they feel more able to stay present in their lives. Therapists who specialize in treating Anxiety with CBT and ERP can help you work toward simply noticing your experience rather than acting on the alarm bells your anxiety sets off when things feel uncomfortable.

Are there other Health Anxiety Help resources I can check out to better understand what I am experiencing?

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Absolutely! Below is a list of articles and reading materials with more information on this topic.

  1. ADAA article on Health Anxiety
  2. Cleveland Clinic Article

Please contact us if you would like health anxiety help in Chicago, IL. We are currently accepting new clients and would love to help.

Get Health Anxiety Help in Chicago, IL

We are accepting clients who meet the following criteria: they are 18 years or older, experience severe difficulty in managing their anxiety, exhibit general dysfunction due to compulsive reactions to worry and have worries that persist for at least an hour or even the entire day despite efforts to alleviate their discomfort.

1. Read more about us to discover if we are the best fit for your Health Anxiety Help.
2. Schedule an appointment.
3. Start living your best life free from health anxiety!

Other Services:

Limitless Counseling Center has a variety of specialty services catered to your needs. In addition to our online OCD therapy in Chicago, IL, we also provide online therapy for panic disordergeneralized anxiety, social anxiety, or phobias, as well as perinatal and postpartum OCD and anxiety.

CBT for Panic Disorder

CBT for Panic Disorder

CBT for Panic Disorder

Are you suffering from a panic disorder and looking for a natural solution to tackle the root causes of your panic attacks? If yes, this guide will inform you about the depths of CBT which is the gold standard treatment for panic disorders. 

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What Is Panic Disorder?

What Is Panic Disorder?

What Is Panic Disorder and How Is It Treated? 

Did you know that if you are experiencing a repeated intense feeling of fear and anxiety without apparent cause then you might be suffering from a panic disorder? If that is the case, this guide is for you. Follow the guide below to learn the causes, symptoms, prevention, and treatment options for a panic disorder.

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We are hiring!

We are hiring!

Clinical Therapist Job Description

Anxiety Specialist

Position Overview: This Clinical therapist will provide outpatient individual therapy to clients of Limitless Counseling Center LLC. Clinical therapy services include treatment of children, adolescents and adults. We are currently looking for counselors who work with children, adolescents and/or adults. Ideally, this would be someone who specializes in working with clients with Anxiety disorders, specifically OCD and specific phobias and who are trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Exposure Response Prevention.

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